Write With Me
Write Anyway : May 2016
A workshop with Janelle Hanchett
Learn to write without giving a shit what people think
And if that doesn’t work, learn to write even though you’re terrified what people think. That’s what I do, and I can tell you about it. I can also tell you about criticism, trolls, and backward internet logic (intimately related to not giving a shit, I assure you).
I can’t tell you about gimmicks or tricks or really even much about advertising or business, but I can tell you what I’ve learned, and in doing so, help you abandon some of the nonsense that’s blocking you in your writing, or making it boring, or leaving you feeling unsatisfied, or causing stress and anxiety and angst because the bastards just won’t leave you alone and what if your mother reads this?
I will teach you how to WRITE ANYWAY.
The story (how it is that I can teach you this)
I started Renegade Mothering in January 2011. For the first 2 years, I had a couple hundred visitors a month. I believe this is largely because I have a ton of cousins, many of whom think I’m funny. Or a trainwreck. Either way, amusing enough to read.
I wrote twice a week. I thought that sounded like a good number. I wrote no matter what, and I wrote what I was thinking. I wrote some really bad stuff. I promised myself I would only write when I felt “the need” (but if the need didn’t come up twice a week, I forced myself to write). No gimmicks. No business talent to speak of. Nothing beyond write and share that writing on Facebook and Twitter.
After I wrote a post I’d call my mom and ask, “Did you read it?” And she’d say “Yeah! You’re funny!” and I’d smile and feel satisfied and good, thinking “She thinks I’m funny!”
And I’d write again.
I finally found a way to make my Master’s degree in English worth something. Well, sort of.
When I started, I had a clear purpose, direction and reason for writing: I wanted to know if other mothers felt like I did. I could not find anybody writing or saying what I saw, felt, lived. So I decided I was going to write the truth of my existence – however raw, ugly, embarrassing, contradictory or weird that may be – simply to determine if the rest of the parenting world was insane or I was.
This question wasn’t deep and it wasn’t noble, but it was real, and it was me. It was my story. It was the thing deep in my gut that kept nagging and wondering.
The results have blown my mind.
Not only have I found other women feeling like I do, I have found thousands of other men and women feeling like I do. People send me messages saying “I thought I was alone feeling this way,” and “I’ve spent my whole life as a parent hiding this part of me.” Some people say they want to kill me in my sleep, but hey. Ya can’t win them all.
I have gained a sense of purpose and meaning. I quit my motherfucking day job. A community has been built around me, way bigger than me, beyond me completely.
Today, 5 years later, the blog averages 300,000 page visits a month and has over 50,000 followers. I’ve had my writing in magazines and well-known websites. I wrote a paid editorial column. Pink tweeted about me (all life will be downhill from here, don’t you think?). I’ve been on podcasts and radio shows. I get to read my work and speak at conferences. This surprises me as much as anybody, and I’m not entirely sure how it’s happened, though I believe I owe it, at least in part, to the following:
- I have learned to differentiate between the truth and bullshit (and bullshit masquerading as truth); and
- I have never wavered from my initial driving question.
And I wrote. And wrote.
And wrote anyway.
Lo and behold, I figured out a few things and I can show you.
I was pretty much a failure at life (and not in a cute way), but I’ve faced that failure completely, and in doing so I’ve found a freedom to just be a human being and write like one, as if the world didn’t exist “out there”.
And I can tell you what that’s looked like.
There’s no silver bullet. There’s no methodology that makes change or new things happen. There’s no comfortable way to accomplish anything, as far as I can tell. But there is process, and we can sure as hell learn from others, and I’m pretty sure you and I can learn from each other.
You already know how to write.
You write all the time.
The problem is not that you don’t know how to write.
The problem is that you’re too freaked out to write the shit you know you’re meant to be writing.
That’s where I come in.
Here it is:
A 6-week, intimate (15 spots), online writing workshop for the person who:
- has a nagging question or persistent feeling of “You should write this,” but isn’t;
- can’t decide what to write about;
- constantly hears the “you suck why are you even trying?” voice when she sits down to write;
- is too afraid to write what they’re really feeling/thinking/experiencing;
- is agonizing over what people will think;
- is obsessing over perfection; and/or
- getting bent out of shape for 3 days over assholes on the internet criticizing in ways that hurt (and somehow they always hit where it hurts). Throwing shade. Insulting intelligence. Name-calling. Making fun. Crafting Reddit threads against you.
Find your voice. Learn not to give a shit.
Or, write anyway.
May 24-June 28: Tuesdays, 10am Pacific Standard Time
- One weekly group video conference with me at 60 minutes each (and these will be recorded so no worries if you miss one).
- Weekly writing prompts. Short ones. I know you’re busy.
- My direct feedback on one piece of writing (of your choosing).
- Access to a private Facebook page of like-minded writers (obviously, since we’re all here) where you can receive support, feedback on your writing, bitch, whine, howl, etc.
- PDF outlining 20 critical technical elements of blogging that will save you time and frustration
- Week 1: Discovering a story you need to tell
- Week 2: Facing your greatest fear in writing
- Week 3: How to stop giving a shit what people think
- Week 4: How to write even though you totally give a shit what people think
- Week 5: What the fuck is “authenticity?”
- Week 6: 5 ways to instantly improve your writing
At the end of this course, you will have:
- 6 pieces of writing that you can publish, pitch, combine or turn into larger pieces
- a stronger sense of direction and purpose in your writing
- tools to get over the demons blocking you (the “don’t even bother you suck” voice and all the other helpful things we tell ourselves)
- a supportive network of other bloggers/writers
- my honest and professional (I do have an MA in English, after all) feedback on writing of your choice
- possibly seen me on video without a bra. Wait. Is that a selling point? Whatever.
Oh fuck it. Let’s just do this.
I’m excited. I want to meet you. I’ve taught writing to college students in real life but this is the fun stuff I WANT to be teaching.
– You can pay for the class in 2 installments but the cost is $359 (because I actually have to pay more to Paypal to provide this option. Sorry.)
– Total enrollment: 15
I’m offering limited spots (2) for extra one-on-one time with me to further support your writing and keep your momentum going. For $469 you’ll get the workshop, plus a 1-hour call with me as well as unlimited email support for one month.
5/2/16: The May “Write Anyway” workshop is sold out. Please sign up below to hear about future writing workshops before they’re open to the public. Thank you!
The fee for the Write Anyway workshop starting on May 24th may be refunded in full up to and including May 10th.
If you require a refund after this date, 50% of your fee may be refunded up to and including May 17th.
Anytime after May 17th, there are no refunds.
This policy exists to ensure that any refunded spots may be filled in time before the workshop begins.
Money paid for this workshop cannot be transferred to any other workshop or service provided by Janelle Hanchett.
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